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Post  Alonsow on Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:45 pm

“The people who can not trust others have two possibilities:-
1.They are afraid of deception.
2.They are deceptive themselves.
Or can have both possibilities at once”
By Sohail Hasham

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Post  Alonsow on Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:23 pm

Weak people :-
The people who don't trust are weak inside.According to this quote, there are three kinds of people who can't trust. :-
1. The people who are afraid of deception :-
There are some people who are feared to be deceived so they don't trust anyone because they don't want to be deceived.They have to face a lot of pain when they get deceived therefore, they stay away from trust.These people are actually weak but they're sincere and honest and they want others to be sincere with them.
2.The people who are deceptive themselves :-
Those people who are deceptive themselves do not trust others as well.They know that they're themselves deceptive and expect the same from others.Due to their this expectation, they don't trust anyone.They are aware of that they themselves aren't trustworthy so they think that all other people are like them and aren't trustworthy.These people are also weak but do not realize it.
3.The people who are deceptive are afraid of deception :-
These are the people who are deceptive and deceive others but they themselves are feared of being deceived.That is why, these people don't trust because they expect from others according to their own activities.Plus, they know that their deceptive activities aren't good and they're feared of being deceived like they deceive the others.
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Strong people :-
Strong people are those who trust, then they get deceived and again trust then broken and trust again and so on.These people are strong inside.They know that this is how to adjust in this world.They expect much from others but most of the times their expectations prove to be wrong.Their best armour is their faith.They stand for it and don't fall for anything.They have the strongest trust in Allah.They never feel lonely and are depressed.They don't cry over small things like "why that person ignored me that time?", "why don't people talk to me normally?", "why people play with my heart?" etc. They don't reject the fact that world is deceptive, rather they accept it and trust others, and they know that whoever doesn't trust others have lost against the deceptive world.They are aware of that life is a test, whenever bad strikes them, they say "we are from Allah and we will return to Allah".

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Post  ushioxsempre on Sun Oct 14, 2012 7:59 pm

In order to live a happy life, you need to be with others, stay with them, spend time with them. If you have got friends, they will help you in the difficult times, be together with you, comfort you, and won’t let you be alone. Because friends, are the thing which make us go through rough times or help us when we don’t know what to do. So, during our lifetime we might get to know many people which we will trust with all our heart, and will have no doubt in their support and trust. But sometimes, the person that we might have choosen, might not be the right one. So, there comes a day in which that person betrays us, and leaves us alone. And just like the saying goes: Nothing hurts more, than being disappointed by the person you never thought would have done so. And this destroys us, and our faith in the world which surrounds us. We stop trusting others, and think that everybody will be like that, and as a result get depressed and think that everybody’s going to deceive us again, if we trust somebody else. So, these are the people who are afraid of deception.

Whereas the people who are deceptive themselves, from a point of view are kinda similar with those who are afraid of deception. Just like those who were afraid of deception, think that everybody is like the person who disappointed them, the people who are deceptive themselves think as everybody else as themselves. In this world they think that all the other people who surround them like themselves, and they could never believe that there exist also good people, because their eyes are blind with their own deception.

And about people who have got both possibilities, are the people who always keep on deceiving others, but when it comes to one’s self they are afraid of being deceived by others. They also live with the fear of being deceived by others, just like they themselves do.
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“The people who can not trust others“

Post  Therealmrlegendary on Sun Oct 14, 2012 8:41 pm

people who cant trust others. for whatever reasons... have a problem, which the quote tells us its they are liars and decievers... and if they are known with that someone will decieve them as 'payback'. or people who are afraid of depeception, they got all the right to be afraid of it. though not doing it is also a problem.

but what about trusting people too much? its not good either ... so lets take these 2 facts and see what we get, which is balance. so neither not trusting people, and trusting them too much is bad.

people who are afraid of deception should get rid of that fear and trust people, if you have problems trusting people then just simply trust them and say this 'if it is Allah's will, you wont betray the trust, and if it is Allah's will, you will betray it' and remember that Allah never forgets a loyal Muslim. if your trust have been betrayed you are to be compenstated, if you are not then it was trustworthy. that way you wont have trust problems anymore.

and if a person is a deciever then he just gets what he deserves. most of these people are like thieves and corrupt. ones who tries to work together and fail eventually. as these 2 kinds of people suffer many problems of all kinds. if one cannot trust another then they are doomed to live solitary.

and also just the idea that we are balancing between not trusting people and over-trusting them is something known Muhammed ( peace and prayers upon him ) and the Quran talked about. As Allah said:
( And those who, when spending, neither exceed the limits nor act miserly, and stay in moderation between the two." ) 25:67 Al Furqan.
and Muhammed ( Peace and prayers upon him ) said: "eat and perform zakat and wear [clothes] without israf [having too much you dont need] or miserly"

so people who dont trust are bound to be decievers, or people with fear, one should not fear, nor decieve, so it is a bad habit. and should be gotten rid of, or as said.. 'cut its neck'. such problems can destroy friendships and relationships between one and another, and the opposite makes them closer.

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